[Zhoffritz]

Guitars&Gems' advice is the very best. Also, have you played the Martin you want, or just seen it on line? The reason I ask is because if it's not actually a good fit for your hands/shoulders/whatever, and you don't bond with it, that's going to be some serious ammo to your husband, not matter how thoroughly you may get him on your side after G&G's recommended conversation(s).